Wedding Invitation Wording Etiquette - Bride and Groom Inviting

Wording your wedding invitation the right way is a something you need to get right the first time. Costs of reprinting your invitations are an unnecessary expense that you don't need, on top of everything else, and a little research and planning could make all the difference. Who is paying for the wedding? The major bill payer for the event is always mentioned first. Nowadays many couples contribute the majority of costs themselves and therefore should be the names mentioned as 'hosting' or inviting the guests to witness and celebrate their wedding with them.

Make your wedding invitation personal and sincere and set the mood you are hoping for with your wordings and verses. A comprehensive wedding invitation will show all the information necessary for your guests to attend your wedding such as date, time, location, addresses, dress code and R.S.V.P. information.

Ideally your wedding invitations should be sent at least 8 weeks before the wedding date, however your may need to send out invitations or Save the Date cards to overseas guests well in advance, up to six months, before the wedding date so they may arrange flights and accommodations. Save the date cards are a great idea if you would like to inform your friends of your wedding date but as yet have not finalized the specific arrangements.

Wishing well or gift registry information should never be included in the main wording of the invitation. Separate cards are available for this which can be included within the envelope.

If a Bride and Groom are inviting only, wording example follows;

Bride name and Groom name requests the pleasure of the company of Guests names to the celebration of their marriage on Saturday 25th February, 2010 at St. Anne's Church, 25 Church St Sydney, NSW at 4.00pm and afterwards at Diamond Reception Centre 345 Pacific Hwy Hornsby, NSW ETC.

OR

Guests names The pleasure of your company is requested at the marriage of Bride name and Groom name on Saturday 25th February, 2010 at St. Anne's Church 25, Church St Sydney, NSW at 4.00pm and afterwards at Diamond Reception Centre 345 Pacific Hwy Turramurra, NSW ETC.

It may be the case that you would like to include parents names within the information and such wording could be as follows;

Bride name and Groom name Together with their parents Bride parents names and Groom parents names invite Guest names to their wedding at St. Anne's Church Church address and afterwards at Reception Venue and address. ETC.

A simpler version without mentioning parents actual names may be;

Together with their parents Bride name and Groom name would love to invite Guest names to their wedding at St.Anne's Church Church address and afterwards at Reception Venue and address. ETC.

Of course you can use a left hand margin as above, or more traditionally centre your text down the middle of the invitation.

Example of and informal letter style invitation follows;

Bride name and Groom name

C/- Reply address.

Dear Guest name,

We would be pleased to have you join us to witness and celebrate our marriage on Saturday 25th March, 2010 at St. Anne's Church, 25 Church St Sydney, at 4.00pm.

Please also join us at a reception to be held following the ceremony at 6.00pm at The Diamond Reception Centre, 345 Pacific Hwy, Turramurra NSW.

We look forward to having your company and ask you to honour us with your reply by 25th February, 2010 to the address above.

Dress; Black Tie

Yours sincerely

Bride name and Groom name.

Of course there are many versions and options to choose from depending on you own situation, and our examples should be used as a base only. Add your own special sentences and words as you see fit to make it personal and unique to you. It should be from your heart, and because you are setting a scene with your wedding invitations, it should be as casual or formal as you wish your wedding to be. This is a day you will remember for the rest of your life, and many friends and family members may like to keep their invitation as a keepsake along with photos in an album, so spending time to get your invitation right is important.

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Wedding Invitation Wording Samples to Use When the Bride and Groom Are Inviting

One of the most important steps in the process of ordering your wedding invitations is writing the wedding invitation wording.

Formal wedding invitations should follow proper wedding invitation etiquette. All invites, whether formal, casual or traditional or non-traditional should include the following:

* Bride's and Groom's full names (including middle names for formal invites)
* Day and date of the wedding
* The year should be written out on the next line following the date
* Time of the wedding
* Location of the wedding (formal wedding invitations usually just include the name of the church or building, while less formal or casual wedding invitations might also include the street address)
* City and State (do not include zip code)

Those are the essentials, the things that you absolutely MUST include in your wedding invitation wording. Other than that, you can be very creative with the rest of the wording. If you are having a non-traditional wedding, do not feel like you must follow all of the rules of etiquette. You can add a favorite poem, scripture or verse. Or you could write something to reflect your own personal story of how you met and why you are getting married. You could even use a verse that relates to the season in which you are getting married.

Some other things you must think about when writing your wedding invitation wording are things like:

* Who is doing the inviting. (Bride's parents, Bride's and Groom's parents, Bride and Groom, Children of Bride and Groom, etc.)
* If the Bride's or Groom's parents are deceased
* If the Bride's or Groom's parents are divorced
* If it is a second (or third or fourth) marriage
* If the wedding is being held in a Church or at a Home or other non-church location

Here are some samples of wedding invitation wording where the Bride and Groom are doing the inviting:

With joyous hearts
we invite you to attend
the wedding of
LaJune Nashea Hamilton
and
Donovan Ramond Williamson
Saturday, the twenty-fifth of April
Two thousand and ten
at five thirty in the evening
Venetian Terrace
215 Mandalay Canal
Arlington, Texas

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Please join us
for a celebration of
Love, friendship, laughter, and family
as
Audrey Davidson
and
Donny Wolverton
Join their hands in holy matrimony
Saturday, August 22
two thousand and ten
at six o'clock in the evening
Windy Road Ranch
Lubbock, Texas

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Together With Their Parents And Family
Luanna Gutierrez
And
Ryan Jacob Dominguez
Request The Honour Of Your Presence
As They Join Hands In Holy Matrimony
Saturday, The Twenty-First Of November
Two Thousand And Nine
At One O'clock In The Afternoon
Holy Spirit Catholic Church
Hemet, California

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Because you have shared in
our lives
by your friendship and love we,
Nicole Bernadette Cypert
and
Nicholas Thomas Jacobson
together with our parents
invite you to share
the beginning of our new life together
when we exchange marriage vows
on Friday, the ninth of May
two thousand eleven
at five o'clock in the evening
Paradise Country Club
Madison, Wisconson

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You are invited to a celebration
of the beginning of our new life together
as Mari D'Lynn Martin
and
Colton Jeremy Jamison
are united as husband and wife
Friday, the twenty-seventh of March
two thousand and ten
at two o'clock in the afternoon
First Baptist Church
Jersey City, New Jersey

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We joyfully invite you to our wedding celebration.
On this day we will marry the one
we laugh with, live for, dream with, and love.
Please join
Kathryn Marie Longbotham
and
Miles David Thornton
at seven o'clock in the evening
on Friday, June twenty-sixth
two thousand and ten
Wenten Chapel
Roanoke, Virginia

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The honor of your presence
is requested at the marriage of
Allysa Lauren Montgomery,
daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Paul Montgomery
and
Bodie Todd Forseman
son of Mr. and Mrs. Scott B. Forseman
Sunday, the eleventh of August
Two thousand and eleven
at two o'clock in the afternoon
Our Lady of Guadalupe Cathedral
Santa Fe, New Mexico

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Wedding Invitation Wording From Bride And Groom Who Will Host Their Own Wedding

With many couples living together before getting married, weddings are changing. The tradition of the bride's family paying for the wedding are no longer a standard. Many times couples will pay for their own weddings. So what are some of the wedding invitation wording from bride and groom hosted weddings?

Many times a verse will open up to the event. The couple may go to a vary informal announcement of the wedding date. With that being said here are some samples of wedding invitation wording from bride and groom hosted weddings:

Happily we two: Bride: and: Groom: have chosen the first day: of our new life together: as (Date): (Year):Please share in our joy as we exchange vows: at (Time): (Place): (Address):City, State God as led two lives: to take one path: Bride: and: Groom: invite you to witness their vows: as they begin their new journey: on (Date): (Year): at (Time): (Place):(Address): City, State How beautiful the day: that is touched by love: (Bride): and: (Groom): will exchange vows of marriage:(Date): (Year): at (Time): (Place):(Address): City, State We will walk arm-in-arm: into every day of our lives, we: (Bride) and: (Groom): invite you to share: a day of happiness: as we begin our new life of love together:on (Date): (Year) at (Time): (Place): (Address): City, State Bride: and: Groom: invite you to share in the joy: when they exchange marriage vows: and begin their new life together: on (Date): (Year): at (Time): (Place): (Address): City, State Bride: and: Groom: would be honoured: to have your join them: as their new family is created: in a marriage and joining ceremony: on (Date): (Year): at (Time): (Place): (Address): City, State. Note this is for couples with children

Wedding invitation wording from bride and groom hosted weddings can be much more informal than standard father of the bride invites.

With these announcements you would spell out the day of the week and the date.The year would also be spelled out just as other invites are done.

In mailing our your invitations the regular envelope addressing etiquette would be used. Depending on if you choose to go formal or informal will determine some of your wording also.

You would use the RSVP cards with wording to match the event. The RSVP is normally addressed to just the bride's name and address.

With so many weddings being given by the couple, Wedding invitation wording from bride and groom hosted weddings can vary. You can even word them to include two families becoming one.

So enjoy your special day and relax. There are words to use for the occasion.

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